A bit about: Scott Muska

Scott Muska
My name is Scott and I’m here to answer your “Ask Him” questions. What qualifies me to do so? Well, for one thing, I’ve been a “him” for more than a quarter of a century. In that time, I’ve learned a great deal about men, women, and the way the sexes tend to interact. Not as much as say, your dad, probably, but that’s why I’m here: you’re encouraged to ask me the kinds of things you would never ask your pops about. Or the other men in your life who may potentially give you a dishonest answer. How do you know I’ll give you an honest answer? Because a) it’s my job and b) I’m not trying to get into your pants. Also: I have always had many female friends. And I love them. I’m (somehow) close friends with (almost) all of my ex-girlfriends. I’ve spent countless hours fielding phone calls, texts, emails, instant messages and, sometimes, even face-to-face inquiries from females re: various male-related issues. I don’t always help them that much—and of course there’s no guarantee my answer to your question will be satisfactory or advisable—but I really enjoy trying to help. And I learn something from every single conundrum thrown my way. This adds to my bank of pseudo-wisdom, which I will deploy in all its little light as I dispense words to you. Ask me anything. Seriously. And I’ll do my best to provide you with a solid answer.

More from Scott:

Ask Him: Meeting My BF’s Mom For The First Time

This is the first year I’m going to be visiting my boyfriend’s family for Thanksgiving. It’s also the first time I’m going to be meeting his mom. I really want to make a good impression. They have a really close relationship, and I don’t want to step on her toes. What should I do to prepare?

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